“Oh no, I could never tell my girlfriend/wife what I’m into sexually or she’d leave me! So I’m sneaking around spending our money on other women to get me off instead.”
Oh yea. Much better plan. Why do I hear that so often and guys ACTUALLY think it makes sense.
Because the alternative would involve too much self-analysis and responsibility for them.
Sadly resigned to the fact that a significant proportion of men have absolutely no interest in having genuine, healthy, honest relationships with women.
There is a lot of wrong going on here.
1. Why does @love-and-bdsm think they know a man’s girlfriend or wife better than he does? If a dude says his wife would not be into it he is probably correct. Most women find doing pornography inspired sexual acts to be unfulfilling.
2. Why do they think johns are being honest? Maybe they did try to add whatever to their sex lives and the women did not enjoy it. Maybe they are just making shit up because they don’t want to have to explain at all.
3. Or maybe the john has no interest in bringing their wives/girlfriends into it because they see the sex they are engaging in as disgusting, and believe only prostituted women are suitable candidates for it. A belief that prostitutes are distinct and disgusting as a class of women is common among johns.
4. Its not about getting off, I am sure these guys get off with their partners. They want to buy and fuck women as a hobby that makes them feel powerful and reinforces their sexist ideas about women.
Its not like johns are a mystery, there are a fair amount of studies about them. They aren’t guys that have trouble communicating with their partners or who cannot otherwise obtain sex (or satisfying sex), they are guys who like to buy people because they can. They know exactly what they are doing and why.
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