The Internalized Misogyny of Fem Doms and Sex Pozzies
“As a pro domme, I was in no way acting as a “strong, empowered, women in ownership of her own sexuality”; it was the furthest thing from it. I mainly abused men, for pay, and it made me feel truly masculine, powerful, and strong, even though it put me in a vulnerable situation legally and physically (safety). There is a term in kink lingo that (poorly) illustrates how dommes can be the unwitting servants: “topping from the bottom”. The male always wielded the power, that it was ever handed over was only an illusion for his sexual gratification. The reality was that I was intensely servile, under a mask of dominance that even I thought was real. The fact is, the act of kink (or sex, stripping, etc) for pay put me in a truly submissive position, having to cater to male needs, and desires, in order to survive financially.”
Tag: internalised misogyny
The Internalized Misogyny of Fem Doms and Sex Pozzies
“As a pro domme, I was in no way acting as a “strong, empowered, women in ownership of her own sexuality”; it was the furthest thing from it. I mainly abused men, for pay, and it made me feel truly masculine, powerful, and strong, even though it put me in a vulnerable situation legally and physically (safety). There is a term in kink lingo that (poorly) illustrates how dommes can be the unwitting servants: “topping from the bottom”. The male always wielded the power, that it was ever handed over was only an illusion for his sexual gratification. The reality was that I was intensely servile, under a mask of dominance that even I thought was real. The fact is, the act of kink (or sex, stripping, etc) for pay put me in a truly submissive position, having to cater to male needs, and desires, in order to survive financially.”
i love the way women talk… every woman has their own fun expressions and mannerisms we have FUN with it men all talk the same
TERFS FUCK OFF
Women are language innovators and create new ways of speech because they are the primary caregivers. This does not apply to men co-opting our identity.
You are going to be really embarrassed by your misogyny in the near future.
i love the way women talk… every woman has their own fun expressions and mannerisms we have FUN with it men all talk the same
TERFS FUCK OFF
Women are language innovators and create new ways of speech because they are the primary caregivers. This does not apply to men co-opting our identity.
You are going to be really embarrassed by your misogyny in the near future.
Cis women shut the fuck up challenge
Literally as a cis woman I couldn’t agree more though lmao
Imagine being complacent in your own dehumanization. Imagine being a handmaiden.
…ive only said this because just about every woman I’ve ever interacted with is annoying and slutty. Chill.
That is internalised misogyny
Cis women shut the fuck up challenge
Literally as a cis woman I couldn’t agree more though lmao
Imagine being complacent in your own dehumanization. Imagine being a handmaiden.
…ive only said this because just about every woman I’ve ever interacted with is annoying and slutty. Chill.
That is internalised misogyny
hey terfs
as a trans guy Born as A Female Wombyn Natural Born Walking Vagina Uwu id like to go on record to say that the people who advocate for the use of “people with vaginas” over “female” or “women”
are
people like me
not trans women
it’s me and other non-women with Natural Wombyn Vaginas who have vaginas and aren’t women
it’s us
we’re the ones who don’t want to be called women when discussing the genitals we have
me! and people like me!
you can stop scapegoating trans women about this now you complete damn buffoons now stop being disgusting
i hear this post is proving to be extremely controversial in the terf fandom
Also consider the following: there are vagina haver’s that need to do vagina health related things, and ALSO have testies, who must attend to testicular health. You know, intersex people. People that are intersex, right out of the factory. People who don’t need “fixing” because they’re fine and implying they must have their genitals mutilated for terf approval is ableist and gross.
They also would like to have the common decency to not be mislabeled.
“implying they must have their genitals mutilated for terf approval” uhhhh which terf said that???
Why does this person think we think “people with vaginas” means transwomen? We know it doesn’t!
How do they always get everything about radical feminists wrong?
okay you know what you take the cake for being the most illiterate terf on this post and trust me that is saying something. the point is that saying “people with vaginas” instead of “women” or “females” WHEN TALKING ABOUT VAGINAS SPECIFICALLY, IE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT MENSTRUATION ABORTION BIRTH COMTROL YEAST INFECTIONS ETC, not women as a whole, is DONE BY and AT THE REQUEST OF non women with vaginas who also need to talk about their bodies but aren’t comfortable with misgendering themselves for the sake of those discussions, NOT TRANS WOMEN who are “uncomfortable being reminded they don’t have vaginas uwu” like some of y’all demons like to pretend so you can act like it’s The Entitled Males Silencing You and not afab trans people who literally just want to talk about their own genitals without misgendering themselves
obviously i can’t force you or any other terfess to care about anyone other than yourself or make you use that term when talking Vaginas And The People Who Have Them, People Who Have Vaginas, Where The Point is Vaginas, The Genitals, The Reproductive Organ, over “wombyn” or whatever geek ass term y’all want to use but luckily that is not the point of that post because trust me i am well aware you lot are not interested in basic human decency, but rather that YOU. ARE. SO. EAGER. TO BLAME TRANS WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING that you’ll blame them for something AFAB TRANS PEOPLE ARE ADVOCATING FOR, a race they have NO HORSE IN, and it’s absolutely fucking bonkers because it is in no way any of their doing, and you have no excuse to keep doing it
god how did you pass ninth grade with that reading comprehension
That’s still fucking misogynist
“okay you know what you take the cake for being the most illiterate terf on this post and trust me that is saying something.”
You didn’t specify that you advocate for language like “uterus bearers” when talking about reproduction. You could argue that it was implied but trans activists use “people with vaginas” in other contexts so it doesn’t hold up.
“the point is that saying “people with vaginas” instead of “women” or “females” WHEN TALKING ABOUT VAGINAS SPECIFICALLY, IE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT MENSTRUATION ABORTION BIRTH COMTROL YEAST INFECTIONS ETC,”
Why are you putting female and woman in quoatation marks?
They are legitimate words and the context they are normally used is correct.
Why are you yelling?
“not women as a whole, is DONE BY and AT THE REQUEST OF non women with vaginas who also need to talk about their bodies but aren’t comfortable with misgendering themselves for the sake of those discussions, NOT TRANS WOMEN who are “uncomfortable being reminded they don’t have vaginas uwu”
But that’s a lie. Trans males insist we use dehumanising language like “uterus bearers” so we don’t upset their delicate sensibilities.
Many trans females don’t appreciate language like “vagina havers” because it reminds them of their dysphoria.
If you were smart you would use “women and trans men” but you’re not so here we are.
“like some of y’all demons”
More dehumanising language.
“like to pretend so you can act like it’s The Entitled Males Silencing”
Because it is. Trans males were the ones who demanded this kind of ~inclusive~ language.
This bullshit is reaching the mainstream like that guide to anal sex for teenage girls that labels women and men “non prostate owners” and “prostate owners”.
“You and not afab trans people who literally just want to talk about their own genitals without misgendering themselves”
If you can’t even talk about your own body without freaking out then you have bigger problems than language.
“obviously i can’t force you or any other terfess to care about anyone other than yourself”
We are such selfish bitches we only care about 3.5 billion female people instead of dropping everything to cater to you
“or make you use that term when talking Vaginas And The People Who Have Them, People Who Have Vaginas, Where The Point is Vaginas, The Genitals, The Reproductive Organ,”
Trans activists are the language police.
You even drafted a policy to fine people for ‘misgendering’ you.
“over “wombyn” or whatever geek ass term y’all want to use”
You want us to use “non men” and “uterus bearers” but we are the “geek ass” ones.
Using woman would be fine.
“but luckily that is not the point of that post because trust me i am well aware you lot are not interested in basic human decency,”
I’m not calling myself a “person with a vagina” Susan.
No matter how much you try the emotional extortion and character assassinations I am not doing what you say.
“but rather that YOU. ARE. SO. EAGER. TO BLAME TRANS WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING”
Because they caused this bullshit but if you want the blame I am more than happy to hold trans female accountable.
“that you’ll blame them for something AFAB TRANS PEOPLE ARE ADVOCATING FOR,”
Most trans females don’t want to be called “people with vaginas”.
“a race they have NO HORSE IN,”
Yet they are constantly sticking their dicks in out business.
“and it’s absolutely fucking bonkers because it is in no way any of their doing”
Except it is.
“and you have no excuse to keep doing it”
There is no excuse trans males are the ones who insist on the “people with vaginas” bullshit and they are the ones who benefit from dehumanising women.
“god how did you pass ninth grade with that reading comprehension”
I was able to pass biology so I am pretty sure my reading comprehension is sufficient.
hey terfs
as a trans guy Born as A Female Wombyn Natural Born Walking Vagina Uwu id like to go on record to say that the people who advocate for the use of “people with vaginas” over “female” or “women”
are
people like me
not trans women
it’s me and other non-women with Natural Wombyn Vaginas who have vaginas and aren’t women
it’s us
we’re the ones who don’t want to be called women when discussing the genitals we have
me! and people like me!
you can stop scapegoating trans women about this now you complete damn buffoons now stop being disgusting
i hear this post is proving to be extremely controversial in the terf fandom
Also consider the following: there are vagina haver’s that need to do vagina health related things, and ALSO have testies, who must attend to testicular health. You know, intersex people. People that are intersex, right out of the factory. People who don’t need “fixing” because they’re fine and implying they must have their genitals mutilated for terf approval is ableist and gross.
They also would like to have the common decency to not be mislabeled.
“implying they must have their genitals mutilated for terf approval” uhhhh which terf said that???
Why does this person think we think “people with vaginas” means transwomen? We know it doesn’t!
How do they always get everything about radical feminists wrong?
okay you know what you take the cake for being the most illiterate terf on this post and trust me that is saying something. the point is that saying “people with vaginas” instead of “women” or “females” WHEN TALKING ABOUT VAGINAS SPECIFICALLY, IE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT MENSTRUATION ABORTION BIRTH COMTROL YEAST INFECTIONS ETC, not women as a whole, is DONE BY and AT THE REQUEST OF non women with vaginas who also need to talk about their bodies but aren’t comfortable with misgendering themselves for the sake of those discussions, NOT TRANS WOMEN who are “uncomfortable being reminded they don’t have vaginas uwu” like some of y’all demons like to pretend so you can act like it’s The Entitled Males Silencing You and not afab trans people who literally just want to talk about their own genitals without misgendering themselves
obviously i can’t force you or any other terfess to care about anyone other than yourself or make you use that term when talking Vaginas And The People Who Have Them, People Who Have Vaginas, Where The Point is Vaginas, The Genitals, The Reproductive Organ, over “wombyn” or whatever geek ass term y’all want to use but luckily that is not the point of that post because trust me i am well aware you lot are not interested in basic human decency, but rather that YOU. ARE. SO. EAGER. TO BLAME TRANS WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING that you’ll blame them for something AFAB TRANS PEOPLE ARE ADVOCATING FOR, a race they have NO HORSE IN, and it’s absolutely fucking bonkers because it is in no way any of their doing, and you have no excuse to keep doing it
god how did you pass ninth grade with that reading comprehension
That’s still fucking misogynist
“okay you know what you take the cake for being the most illiterate terf on this post and trust me that is saying something.”
You didn’t specify that you advocate for language like “uterus bearers” when talking about reproduction. You could argue that it was implied but trans activists use “people with vaginas” in other contexts so it doesn’t hold up.
“the point is that saying “people with vaginas” instead of “women” or “females” WHEN TALKING ABOUT VAGINAS SPECIFICALLY, IE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT MENSTRUATION ABORTION BIRTH COMTROL YEAST INFECTIONS ETC,”
Why are you putting female and woman in quoatation marks?
They are legitimate words and the context they are normally used is correct.
Why are you yelling?
“not women as a whole, is DONE BY and AT THE REQUEST OF non women with vaginas who also need to talk about their bodies but aren’t comfortable with misgendering themselves for the sake of those discussions, NOT TRANS WOMEN who are “uncomfortable being reminded they don’t have vaginas uwu”
But that’s a lie. Trans males insist we use dehumanising language like “uterus bearers” so we don’t upset their delicate sensibilities.
Many trans females don’t appreciate language like “vagina havers” because it reminds them of their dysphoria.
If you were smart you would use “women and trans men” but you’re not so here we are.
“like some of y’all demons”
More dehumanising language.
“like to pretend so you can act like it’s The Entitled Males Silencing”
Because it is. Trans males were the ones who demanded this kind of ~inclusive~ language.
This bullshit is reaching the mainstream like that guide to anal sex for teenage girls that labels women and men “non prostate owners” and “prostate owners”.
“You and not afab trans people who literally just want to talk about their own genitals without misgendering themselves”
If you can’t even talk about your own body without freaking out then you have bigger problems than language.
“obviously i can’t force you or any other terfess to care about anyone other than yourself”
We are such selfish bitches we only care about 3.5 billion female people instead of dropping everything to cater to you
“or make you use that term when talking Vaginas And The People Who Have Them, People Who Have Vaginas, Where The Point is Vaginas, The Genitals, The Reproductive Organ,”
Trans activists are the language police.
You even drafted a policy to fine people for ‘misgendering’ you.
“over “wombyn” or whatever geek ass term y’all want to use”
You want us to use “non men” and “uterus bearers” but we are the “geek ass” ones.
Using woman would be fine.
“but luckily that is not the point of that post because trust me i am well aware you lot are not interested in basic human decency,”
I’m not calling myself a “person with a vagina” Susan.
No matter how much you try the emotional extortion and character assassinations I am not doing what you say.
“but rather that YOU. ARE. SO. EAGER. TO BLAME TRANS WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING”
Because they caused this bullshit but if you want the blame I am more than happy to hold trans female accountable.
“that you’ll blame them for something AFAB TRANS PEOPLE ARE ADVOCATING FOR,”
Most trans females don’t want to be called “people with vaginas”.
“a race they have NO HORSE IN,”
Yet they are constantly sticking their dicks in out business.
“and it’s absolutely fucking bonkers because it is in no way any of their doing”
Except it is.
“and you have no excuse to keep doing it”
There is no excuse trans males are the ones who insist on the “people with vaginas” bullshit and they are the ones who benefit from dehumanising women.
“god how did you pass ninth grade with that reading comprehension”
I was able to pass biology so I am pretty sure my reading comprehension is sufficient.
hey terfs
as a trans guy Born as A Female Wombyn Natural Born Walking Vagina Uwu id like to go on record to say that the people who advocate for the use of “people with vaginas” over “female” or “women”
are
people like me
not trans women
it’s me and other non-women with Natural Wombyn Vaginas who have vaginas and aren’t women
it’s us
we’re the ones who don’t want to be called women when discussing the genitals we have
me! and people like me!
you can stop scapegoating trans women about this now you complete damn buffoons now stop being disgusting
i hear this post is proving to be extremely controversial in the terf fandom
Actually trans males have been the creators and main enforcers of “uterus bearer” language
I have seen lots of trans females say they hate terms like “people with vaginas” (which makes being a woman sound like a disability) because it triggers their dysphoria
So we aren’t “scapegoating” we are putting the blame where it belongs
That said any trans female that stands beside her misogynist brothers can take the blame too
hey terfs
as a trans guy Born as A Female Wombyn Natural Born Walking Vagina Uwu id like to go on record to say that the people who advocate for the use of “people with vaginas” over “female” or “women”
are
people like me
not trans women
it’s me and other non-women with Natural Wombyn Vaginas who have vaginas and aren’t women
it’s us
we’re the ones who don’t want to be called women when discussing the genitals we have
me! and people like me!
you can stop scapegoating trans women about this now you complete damn buffoons now stop being disgusting
i hear this post is proving to be extremely controversial in the terf fandom
Actually trans males have been the creators and main enforcers of “uterus bearer” language
I have seen lots of trans females say they hate terms like “people with vaginas” (which makes being a woman sound like a disability) because it triggers their dysphoria
So we aren’t “scapegoating” we are putting the blame where it belongs
That said any trans female that stands beside her misogynist brothers can take the blame too
Celtyradfem 