zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

cheshireinthemiddle:

feminismshmeminism:

foroneandall:

celtyradfem:

silenton:

Friendly reminder

This is the ‘it takes two to tango‘ excuse for male violence.

Men can walk away and or block much easier than a woman can.

Next time don’t put this shit in the radfem tag.

Dude
You’re allowed to defend yourself, don’t condone female domestic violence that’s a fucked up double standard and is one of the reasons male abuse victims aren’t taken seriously

A man can’t always “just walk away and or block much easier than a woman can”
Some women are tough as nails, and their male counterparts just aren’t
That’s okay, but violence is never okay unless you’re defending yourself

Oh hey look at that, a feminist perpetuating the concept that men are stronger and less fragile than women.

Op: *equality*

@celtyradfem: “okay, but this could end up treating women like men get treated, so how about no.”

@celtyradfem “oh no, someone says I shouldn’t treat people violently unless I want to be treated violently? Whatever shall I do??????”

“Oh no I can’t bash women and then pretend her slapping me is just as bad. What should I do???????“

“Oh no I can’t bash men and then pretend that him slapping me is just as bad. What should I do?????”

Yeah a man slapping a woman is an arrestable offence (if she presses charges).

Because of arm length, bone density, muscle strength etc.

A woman slapping a man is not the same thing as a man slapping a woman.

Gender flipping then pretending you something profound doesn’t change the outcome.

Oh, so women are weak? Women are fragile? Women are defenseless? Really? Women are incapable of causing harm – physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual – to another being, because you think women are weak and need to be protected?

Fuck off. Tell that to the 60% of men who suffer from domestic violence from their female partners. Tell that to the wlw whose abuser is a woman. Tell that to the disproportionate amount of children who are abused by their mothers every fucking day. Tell that to the 48% of child homicide victims who were fucking murdered by their mothers.

People like you are why women get off scott-free. People like you are why women have so much power and sway over the court. People like you are why I had to lecture my younger brother on why and how it was important that he learn to defend himself against a woman. People like you are why I am horrified for my son’s future when the time comes for him to be romantically proactive.

You are a sexist piece of shit. You perpetuate, condone, and accept violence from women – whether it be towards men, or towards other women – and it is fucking disgusting. You think that just because men can be stronger that they should never be able to defend themselves from a dangerous, psychopathic woman because “suddenly” it’s abuse if he raises a hand to deflect her own.

Plot twist, dipshit: It is abuse from the woman. If ANYONE raises their hand to another person, they should ALWAYS expect to get the shit knocked out of them. No fucking matter what is in their pants, no fucking matter how they identify. Insinuating otherwise just shows the world how fucking entitled you are.

 I know you want to punch women but calm down.

“Oh, so women are weak?   Women are fragile?  Women are defenseless?   Really?“

Men are dangerous. Women are vulnerable.

“Women are incapable of causing harm – physical, mental, emotional, or
spiritual – to another being,”’

Why do you feel so insecure in your manhood that you cast women as the villains in your mind?

What would spiritual abuse of men by women even look like?

Hitting a man with her halo?

When I think of gendered spiritual abuse I think of patriarchal religions debasing and subjugating women. Erasing female deities and denying any form of female divinity.

“because you think women are weak and need
to be protected?”

Women need protections from men because men are dangerous and are always finding new ways to harm women.

(I’m going to debunk this false assertions and statistics later on.)

“People like you are why I had to lecture my younger brother on why and
how it was important that he learn to defend himself against a woman.”

You mean poison his mind and teach him to hate and resent women.

I assume you’ve tried the same with your son.

I hope his mother gets away from you.

“You perpetuate, condone, and accept violence from women – whether it be
towards men, or towards other women – and it is fucking disgusting.“

Isn’t this a false accusation of abuse?

I thought your type are really against false accusations.

“You are a sexist piece of shit.“

No such thing as sexism against men.

That’s not how sexism works.

The last paragraph was demented.

“I know you want to punch women but calm down,” I AM A WOMAN, YOU DIMWIT.

You only call women vulnerable because you WANT to be a victim. You WANT to have an excuse to cry and be pampered. You don’t WANT the RESPONSIBILITY THAT COMES WITH BEING A FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN.

And, no. My arguments are anything but false. They have been proven time and time again.

And, again. I AM my son’s mother. I am a woman. Nice sexism tho. Good job proving literally every point I’ve made, you fucking idiot. I am a woman, and according to YOUR LOGIC, I am correct. You. Are. Sexist.

Yet you still hate other women and are hyper-agressive to other women.

You sound deranged but you’re not as dangerous as men.

If we were having this conversation in real life I’d just laugh at you.

If you were a man and we were having this conversation in real life I’d call the police quick smart.

“You only call women vulnerable because you WANT to be a victim.”

I don’t think men should hit women and that means I “want to be a “victim“…….ok then. 

“You
WANT to have an excuse to cry and be pampered.”

Wanting to be free from male violence isn’t a luxury is is our human rights.

I think you are going to coddle your son so much he is going to be incredibly weak-minded man.

“You don’t WANT the
RESPONSIBILITY THAT COMES WITH BEING A FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN. “

So accepting men’s violence as an operating cost when having to deal with them is a part being a FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN.

“And, no.  My arguments are anything but false.  They have been proven time and time again. “

No they haven’t. Your ‘research‘ will be false or misrepresented.

“And, again. I AM my son’s mother.  I am a woman.”

He’s going to grow up to be weird and have ‘issues with women’.

The women of his generation are going to have yet another burden thanks to your backwards views.

“Nice sexism tho.”

Sexism doesn’t work like that even if a woman deludes herself to believe so.

“ I am a woman, and according to YOUR LOGIC, I am correct.  You.  Are. Sexist.”

I don’t think you listened to what I said. I said men are dangerous and women are vulnerable (which is true). You added a lot of bullshit in an attempt to muddy the waters but I’m not falling for it.

If that makes you feel better I tell women spouting sexism say and supporting male violence and male domination parroting what men say to fuck off too.

So….fuck off.

Honey, you haven’t read anything that I’ve said to you.

You’re laughable. You’re pathetic. You’re more sexist than the most sexist men I have encountered. Your views are abhorrent, disgusting, fallable, and grossly misinformed.

If a woman is hitting a man, he deserves to defend himself. Period. The end. Believing that it isn’t abuse the second she raises her hand to him, but that it is the moment he defends himself, is inherently sexist.

Believing that men are inherently dangerous and women are inherently “vulnerable” (see also: fragile, weak, victims) is sexism at its finest. Fuck, I’m pretty sure that within two years time your tumblr URL will be posted as an alternative definition for Sexism in Merriam-Webster’s.

So, have fun with your miserable, shitty little life. Have fun thinking that women are weak, infallible little things. Have fun projecting your insecurities onto men.

I sincerely hope that there are no men in your life that have to deal with your insufferable, sexist bullshit.

And, by the way? My son treats women wonderfully. He’s just going to know how to stay away from toxic cunts like you. Sorry that knowing a woman is privy enough to your abusive behavior that she’s teaching her children how to avoid it makes you uncomfortable.

I read your shit. It’s still shit.

A man can easily walk away. He doesn’t need to worry too much.

“Believing that it isn’t abuse the second she raises her hand to him, but
that it is the moment he defends himself, is inherently sexist. “

Just because the mouse has the cat backed into the corner does not in any way reverse the role of predator and prey.

“Believing that men are inherently dangerous and women are inherently
"vulnerable” (see also: fragile, weak, victims) is sexism at its finest.“

Go tell that shit to the women in domestic violence centers and see how well you are received.

“So, have fun with your miserable, shitty little life.  Have fun thinking
that women are weak, infallible little things.  Have fun projecting
your insecurities onto men.”

Meanwhile men are still bashing, killing and raping women.

Right now I am remembering that man in a health clinic I used to work at who was so scary I felt nervous from behind the the barrier and how scared his wife was because she thought he would kill her.

Have fun with your denial and maladaptive psychological protection strategies (and an unhappy poly lifestyle).

“I sincerely hope that there are no men in your life that have to deal with your insufferable, sexist bullshit. “

I tease the men in my life just so you know.

In fact my mother, myself and his girlfriend teased my brother just the other day about how his new girlfriend has “domesticated“ him.

Still no such thing as ‘sexism against men’

You: "And, by the way? My son treats women wonderfully.”

Also You: “He’s just going to know how to stay away from toxic cunts like you”

More You: You’re more sexist than the most sexist men I have encountered. Your views are abhorrent, disgusting, fallable, and grossly misinformed.

Do you hear yourself?

I wasn’t kidding when I said you were going to raise your son to “have issues with women”.

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

celtyradfem:

zelsbels:

cheshireinthemiddle:

feminismshmeminism:

foroneandall:

celtyradfem:

silenton:

Friendly reminder

This is the ‘it takes two to tango‘ excuse for male violence.

Men can walk away and or block much easier than a woman can.

Next time don’t put this shit in the radfem tag.

Dude
You’re allowed to defend yourself, don’t condone female domestic violence that’s a fucked up double standard and is one of the reasons male abuse victims aren’t taken seriously

A man can’t always “just walk away and or block much easier than a woman can”
Some women are tough as nails, and their male counterparts just aren’t
That’s okay, but violence is never okay unless you’re defending yourself

Oh hey look at that, a feminist perpetuating the concept that men are stronger and less fragile than women.

Op: *equality*

@celtyradfem: “okay, but this could end up treating women like men get treated, so how about no.”

@celtyradfem “oh no, someone says I shouldn’t treat people violently unless I want to be treated violently? Whatever shall I do??????”

“Oh no I can’t bash women and then pretend her slapping me is just as bad. What should I do???????“

“Oh no I can’t bash men and then pretend that him slapping me is just as bad. What should I do?????”

Yeah a man slapping a woman is an arrestable offence (if she presses charges).

Because of arm length, bone density, muscle strength etc.

A woman slapping a man is not the same thing as a man slapping a woman.

Gender flipping then pretending you something profound doesn’t change the outcome.

Oh, so women are weak? Women are fragile? Women are defenseless? Really? Women are incapable of causing harm – physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual – to another being, because you think women are weak and need to be protected?

Fuck off. Tell that to the 60% of men who suffer from domestic violence from their female partners. Tell that to the wlw whose abuser is a woman. Tell that to the disproportionate amount of children who are abused by their mothers every fucking day. Tell that to the 48% of child homicide victims who were fucking murdered by their mothers.

People like you are why women get off scott-free. People like you are why women have so much power and sway over the court. People like you are why I had to lecture my younger brother on why and how it was important that he learn to defend himself against a woman. People like you are why I am horrified for my son’s future when the time comes for him to be romantically proactive.

You are a sexist piece of shit. You perpetuate, condone, and accept violence from women – whether it be towards men, or towards other women – and it is fucking disgusting. You think that just because men can be stronger that they should never be able to defend themselves from a dangerous, psychopathic woman because “suddenly” it’s abuse if he raises a hand to deflect her own.

Plot twist, dipshit: It is abuse from the woman. If ANYONE raises their hand to another person, they should ALWAYS expect to get the shit knocked out of them. No fucking matter what is in their pants, no fucking matter how they identify. Insinuating otherwise just shows the world how fucking entitled you are.

 I know you want to punch women but calm down.

“Oh, so women are weak?   Women are fragile?  Women are defenseless?   Really?“

Men are dangerous. Women are vulnerable.

“Women are incapable of causing harm – physical, mental, emotional, or
spiritual – to another being,”’

Why do you feel so insecure in your manhood that you cast women as the villains in your mind?

What would spiritual abuse of men by women even look like?

Hitting a man with her halo?

When I think of gendered spiritual abuse I think of patriarchal religions debasing and subjugating women. Erasing female deities and denying any form of female divinity.

“because you think women are weak and need
to be protected?”

Women need protections from men because men are dangerous and are always finding new ways to harm women.

(I’m going to debunk this false assertions and statistics later on.)

“People like you are why I had to lecture my younger brother on why and
how it was important that he learn to defend himself against a woman.”

You mean poison his mind and teach him to hate and resent women.

I assume you’ve tried the same with your son.

I hope his mother gets away from you.

“You perpetuate, condone, and accept violence from women – whether it be
towards men, or towards other women – and it is fucking disgusting.“

Isn’t this a false accusation of abuse?

I thought your type are really against false accusations.

“You are a sexist piece of shit.“

No such thing as sexism against men.

That’s not how sexism works.

The last paragraph was demented.

“I know you want to punch women but calm down,” I AM A WOMAN, YOU DIMWIT.

You only call women vulnerable because you WANT to be a victim. You WANT to have an excuse to cry and be pampered. You don’t WANT the RESPONSIBILITY THAT COMES WITH BEING A FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN.

And, no. My arguments are anything but false. They have been proven time and time again.

And, again. I AM my son’s mother. I am a woman. Nice sexism tho. Good job proving literally every point I’ve made, you fucking idiot. I am a woman, and according to YOUR LOGIC, I am correct. You. Are. Sexist.

Yet you still hate other women and are hyper-agressive to other women.

You sound deranged but you’re not as dangerous as men.

If we were having this conversation in real life I’d just laugh at you.

If you were a man and we were having this conversation in real life I’d call the police quick smart.

“You only call women vulnerable because you WANT to be a victim.”

I don’t think men should hit women and that means I “want to be a “victim“…….ok then. 

“You
WANT to have an excuse to cry and be pampered.”

Wanting to be free from male violence isn’t a luxury is is our human rights.

I think you are going to coddle your son so much he is going to be incredibly weak-minded man.

“You don’t WANT the
RESPONSIBILITY THAT COMES WITH BEING A FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN. “

So accepting men’s violence as an operating cost when having to deal with them is a part being a FULLY FUNCTIONING HUMAN.

“And, no.  My arguments are anything but false.  They have been proven time and time again. “

No they haven’t. Your ‘research‘ will be false or misrepresented.

“And, again. I AM my son’s mother.  I am a woman.”

He’s going to grow up to be weird and have ‘issues with women’.

The women of his generation are going to have yet another burden thanks to your backwards views.

"Nice sexism tho.”

Sexism doesn’t work like that even if a woman deludes herself to believe so.

“ I am a woman, and according to YOUR LOGIC, I am correct.  You.  Are. Sexist.”

I don’t think you listened to what I said. I said men are dangerous and women are vulnerable (which is true). You added a lot of bullshit in an attempt to muddy the waters but I’m not falling for it.

If that makes you feel better I tell women spouting sexism say and supporting male violence and male domination parroting what men say to fuck off too.

So….fuck off.