the-future-now:

Freezing up during rape is a common biological response, study finds

  • “I couldn’t move. My body just shut down.” “I froze.”
  • When reporting rape, survivors often recall feeling paralyzed: Aware of what was happening but unable to stop it, because their limbs just wouldn’t cooperate.
  • A new study
    out of Sweden offers an explanation for that feeling of temporary
    paralysis: tonic immobility, or an involuntary self-defense mechanism
    cued during moments of extreme fear, which leaves the human body
    immobile and unresponsive until a threat has passed.
  • Tonic
    immobility is essentially the same thing that happens when a possum
    suddenly stiffens and rolls over, as if dead, or a deer freezes in the
    headlights.
  • And according to the study, published in the journal Acta
    Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica Wednesday, it’s also an
    eminently common response to sexual assault. Read more (6/7/`17)

the-future-now:

Freezing up during rape is a common biological response, study finds

  • “I couldn’t move. My body just shut down.” “I froze.”
  • When reporting rape, survivors often recall feeling paralyzed: Aware of what was happening but unable to stop it, because their limbs just wouldn’t cooperate.
  • A new study
    out of Sweden offers an explanation for that feeling of temporary
    paralysis: tonic immobility, or an involuntary self-defense mechanism
    cued during moments of extreme fear, which leaves the human body
    immobile and unresponsive until a threat has passed.
  • Tonic
    immobility is essentially the same thing that happens when a possum
    suddenly stiffens and rolls over, as if dead, or a deer freezes in the
    headlights.
  • And according to the study, published in the journal Acta
    Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica Wednesday, it’s also an
    eminently common response to sexual assault. Read more (6/7/`17)

veganfirebender:

Why refer to the act of men secretly removing the condom mid-intercourse as “stealthing” when you can call it by its actual name, rape.

If they don’t use the R word then they don’t have to acknowledge what they have done.

They will engage in behaviours that are legally and ethically rape but do not want to see it as rape.

It is male bonding for them to talk about and share tips on how to rape women. They will make a game of it, laughing about it behind women’s backs.

blackswallowtailbutterfly:

inferior-mirage:

aneurysmsandanalogues:

doorthee:

nevaehtyler:

my heart aches

damn.

Only women should be allowed to provide humanitarian aid. Sorry not sorry.

Did you guys ever see The Whistleblower, with Rachel Weiscz, about U.N. Peacekeeper contractors involved in Bosnian sex trafficking? Here’s some background: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2011/08/05/kathryn-bolkovac-the-real-whistleblower-on-human-trafficking-in-bosnia.html and we know diplomatic immunity still protects these assholes as no resolution has been made other than PR

Jesus Christ.

lapdanseuse:

liberal men on rape: not all men are rapists, it’s not fair to generalize us like that. where’s my hug?

conservative men on rape: of course men rape, evolution made us that way so it’s just how we are, what did you expect? don’t let yourself be a victim. watch your drink and stop being so flirtatious

MRAs on rape: actually, women rape men and women falsely accuse men of rape and those are the important problems that feminists SHOULD care about

meanwhile: 99% of rapists are male, 90% of victims are female, rape happens every 4.5 minutes, and only 6% of rapes will result in the perpetrator being incarcerated.

rapists: thanks guys for shifting the blame and obscuring the nature of the problem, we couldn’t do this without your help 🙂

Women and children ‘endure rape, beatings and abuse’ inside Dunkirk’s (Dunkerque) refugee camp

theversatilist:

Children and women are being raped by traffickers inside a refugee camp in northern France, according to detailed testimony gathered ahead of fresh legal action against the UK government’s approach to the welfare of unaccompanied minors.

Corroborating accounts from volunteers, medics, refugees and other officials reveal that sexual abuse is common within the large camp at Dunkirk and that children and women are forced to have sex by traffickers in return for blankets or food or the offer of passage to the UK.

Legal proceedings will be issued by London-based Bindmans against the Home Office, which is accused of acting unfairly and irrationally by electing to settle only minors from the vast Calais camp that closed last October, ignoring the child refugees gathered in Dunkirk, 40 miles away along the coast.

The legal action, brought on behalf of the Dunkirk Legal Support Team and funded by a crowd justice scheme, says the Home Office’s approach was arbitrary and mean-spirited. On Wednesday the government’s approach to child refugees provoked widespread indignation when the home secretary, Amber Rudd, announced the decision to end the “Dubs scheme”, having allowed just 350 children to enter the UK, 10% of the number most MPs and aid organisations had been led to believe could enter.

A petition of 50,000 signatures was handed in to Theresa May on Saturday by Labour peer Alf Dubs amid growing cross-party anger at the decision.

Caroline Robinson of Bindmans said: “Our clients call upon the home secretary to reconsider her position.”

On Friday the archbishop of Canterbury said the government’s decision meant that child refugees would be at risk of being trafficked and even killed. Justin Welby’s warnings of what could happen if child refugees were denied the opportunity of safe passage are graphically articulated in the testimonies gathered over several months by the Observer.

Accounts from those at the camp, which currently holds up to 2,000 refugees, of whom an estimated 100 are unaccompanied minors, portray a squalid site with inadequate security and atrocious living conditions. The Dunkirk Legal Support Team says the failure of the authorities to guard the site has allowed the smugglers to take control.

One volunteer coordinator, who started working at the camp last year, said: “Sexual assault, violence and rape are all far too common. Minors are assaulted and women are raped and forced to pay for smuggling with their bodies.” Testifying on condition of anonymity, she added: “Although the showers are meant to be locked at night, particularly dangerous individuals in the camp have keys and are able to take the women to the showers in the night to force themselves on them. This has happened to women I know very well.”

She said that one of the most in-demand products distributed to women in Camp de la Linière – the Dunkirk Camp – are adult nappies. “Women are too scared to go to the toilets in the night. None of the locks in the women’s toilets in the camp work,” she said.

The volunteer also recounted several incidents where minors had been attacked: “A 12-year-old girl was groomed in the camp by a man well over twice her age. When she no longer wanted to speak with him because his behaviour towards her had become so obscene, he threatened her. A 13-year-old boy ended up returning to his home country having been raped in the camp.”

Another statement provided by an ex-NGO worker, who spent three and a half years volunteering at Dunkirk, said men targeted women and children because they were so vulnerable. “You see women in a male environment with men that are disconnected from reality, so there are serious incidents such as rape. Women, children, young teens, male and female.” The worker referred to the children as being like “little steaks” because they were considered so appetitising and vulnerable to traffickers, of whom dozens are resident on site. One woman travelling by herself said that unaccompanied individuals were viewed as prey: “All men see that I’m alone, and it’s the same for the children. Men see me and they want to rape me.”

The witness statement from another volunteer, who could speak Arabic, describes how a 14-year-old from Morocco appeared to have been raped and could not sit down and kept repeating that he felt so “ashamed”.

Their account stated: “He didn’t want anything, he was only crying and asking for his mum. He had been badly beaten.”

The worker also described how a young child had been sexually assaulted on site, leaving her mother so shocked she had been rendered mute. “We have also seen in the past a woman holding a seven or eight-year-old girl by her arm next to GSF [the charity Gynaecology sans Frontières has a unit on site] and apparently this child had been raped just before, and the woman was afraid to report it to police. She was there, standing silent refusing to report it.”

Another account from a volunteer refers to an incident in November 2016 when a 17-year-old unaccompanied minor complained of sharing a shelter with six older strangers. “Between 23.00 and midnight he called to say he will wait for me outside the camp. He was usually very calm, but this time he was anxious. When we finally met he told me that somebody tried to sexually assault/force him into sexual activity. He managed to escape when he was going to use the toilet.” The threat of violence in the camp was described as so severe that many reported guns and knives being carried openly.

Georgia Feilding of the Dunkirk Legal Support Team said: “We have done all that we can to draw the plight of the Dunkirk children to the attention of the UK government and implored them to act to honour the pledges made. We now have no other choice but to turn to the high court to challenge their failure to protect these most vulnerable of children and provide them with a safe route and sanctuary in the UK.”

This really needs to be addressed. Why do I need to resort to the Guardian to learn about that is beyond me. Those populations are fragile, they’ve been through Hell and we should be protecting them! Thousands of refugee kids are missing in Europe and they could very well be in sex rings. Damn I can’t believe we fail those people so bad. This is such a shame. 

Women and children ‘endure rape, beatings and abuse’ inside Dunkirk’s (Dunkerque) refugee camp

Man raped partner while she was in labour, court told

femignome:

A man raped his pregnant girlfriend while she was in labour after telling her he felt “horny”, a court heard.

The man allegedly attacked his partner while she was on her hands and knees trying to relieve the pain of her contractions after going into labour at home in Hull, East Yorkshire.

He continued to have sex with her even as she cried out in pain and begged him to stop, Hull Crown Court heard.

After the alleged attack, the defendant is said to have “acted as if nothing happened” and offered to run his girlfriend a bath.

Hours later the woman gave birth to their son in hospital.

The couple, who had been together for seven years, cannot be named for legal reasons.

Prosecutor Michael Greenhalgh told the court how the woman entered the “advanced stages of labour” while the couple were in bed at around 11.30pm.

The defendant fell asleep but his girlfriend did not.

Greenhalgh said: “She was in bed, naked as she normally would be.

“To try and relieve the pressure and the pain of the contractions, she got onto all fours because she had been told that was a way of relieving the pain.

“She was in that position when the defendant woke up. He saw her naked on all fours and said ‘I feel horny’, to which she replied “are you serious?”.

“The defendant then got behind her and started having sex with her.“The prosecutor said the woman "made it clear” that it was “not something she wanted or something she was consenting to” but the defendant ignored her protests.

Greenhalgh said after the alleged assault the defendant “even asked if she wanted him to run a bath for her”.

He continued: “Shortly after this had happened, she went to hospital and the couple’s son was born.”

Following the baby’s birth, the alleged victim stayed with her mother because the heating at the couple’s property was broken.

When she returned home she reported the alleged rape to her family and police.

Greenhalgh said initial texts between the pair after the birth were of affection and excitement because of their child but that the tone soon changed when she went back home.

He said: “The woman will note two things precipitated that change. Firstly, she was back in the bedroom where this happened, which is a stark and uncomfortable reminder to her. And, he behaved in an inappropriate way with the new baby.

"The child is crying and he wouldn’t let her pick the child up and refers to it as a "spoiled little ****”. It was at that point she decided she couldn’t forget what has happened.“

The defendant denies the pair had sex. The trial continues.

What a sick fuck.

Women aren’t even safe from rape while giving birth.

Man raped partner while she was in labour, court told