Why do you call transgender a trend? It’s not a trend and many people have committed suicide because they aren’t accepted as who they are.

auntiewanda:

What’s happening currently is a trend. So-called “rapid onset dysphoria”, clusters of kids declaring themselves “trans” in an obvious social contagion, new identities being invented constantly with claims that people who actually feel dsyphoria are “truscum” and “you don’t need dysphoria to be trans”, and these new self-declarative identities being given legal clout to the detriment of women’s rights.

But at the same time, I still feel treating dysphoria by enabling and validating the symptoms is unethical and unscientific. I’ve yet to encounter anyone who can justify why someone can only “be who they are” with surgery, a name change, behavioral lessons, a wardrobe change and the demand that every person they meet suspend their basic observations of reality.

Why do you call transgender a trend? It’s not a trend and many people have committed suicide because they aren’t accepted as who they are.

auntiewanda:

What’s happening currently is a trend. So-called “rapid onset dysphoria”, clusters of kids declaring themselves “trans” in an obvious social contagion, new identities being invented constantly with claims that people who actually feel dsyphoria are “truscum” and “you don’t need dysphoria to be trans”, and these new self-declarative identities being given legal clout to the detriment of women’s rights.

But at the same time, I still feel treating dysphoria by enabling and validating the symptoms is unethical and unscientific. I’ve yet to encounter anyone who can justify why someone can only “be who they are” with surgery, a name change, behavioral lessons, a wardrobe change and the demand that every person they meet suspend their basic observations of reality.

celtyradfem:

Radfems Only

What was the first time you received a message from trans activist telling you to delete a post because you are a ‘terf’ or you reblogged a radfem?

@lydia-oh-lydia said: “The second time I reblogged something mildly terfy to my non radfem sideblog. Surprised at how little it took to warrant anonymous messages”

What was the offending post?

celtyradfem:

Radfems Only

What was the first time you received a message from trans activist telling you to delete a post because you are a ‘terf’ or you reblogged a radfem?

@lydia-oh-lydia said: “The second time I reblogged something mildly terfy to my non radfem sideblog. Surprised at how little it took to warrant anonymous messages”

What was the offending post?

My peak trans was when Rachel Dolezal and Caitlyn Jenner happened in one week. Someone on fb said it was the same thing and I was arguing (I used to be a big libfem handmaid). I was like “It’s not the same, gender is a spectrum but RD is basing an identity on stereotypes and claiming a set of experiences that never belonged to her.” and this person replied “How is that different?” And I didn’t have an answer. I went to go hate-read the evil TERF blogs and was just like…oh shit. They’re right.

artemiswasamerf:

(While I don’t like the word handmaiden to describe women, I decided to post this ask anyways)

Once again, hate reading converted yet another person to the Dark Side™ 😂 I’m curious if TRAs caught on to what “hate reading” can do and that’s why the “block and stay safe” movement against TERFs was so crucial to the movement?

They know.

That’s why they tell their loyal followers to “block and stay safe uwu”.

They know that we’re right and are terrified of losing control of their followers

Trans Activism and Ur-Fascism

regina-georg:

So, you know how trans activists are constantly insisting that so-called “terfs” are Nazis or fascists?  Well I’m in a trolling mood, so just for fun, lets compare the contemporary trans movement to Umberto Eco’s fourteen-point definition of fascism.  How many characteristics of fascism does trans activism share?

  • “The Cult of Tradition" characterized by cultural syncretism,
    even at the risk of internal contradiction. When all truth has already
    been revealed by Tradition, no new learning can occur, only further
    interpretation and refinement.
    This point is debatable I guess, depending on your definition of “tradition.” The contemporary trans movement certainly relies on a rigid dogma from which “no new learning can occur,” but it’s not necessarily tied to nostalgia and it’s certainly not a form of nationalism.
  • “The Rejection of Modernism”
    which views the rationalistic development of Western culture since the
    Enlightenment as a descent into depravity. Eco distinguishes this from a
    rejection of superficial technological advancement, as many fascist
    regimes cite their industrial potency as proof of the vitality of their
    system.
    Like other post-modernist movements the contemporary trans movement absolutely rejects modernism and reason while embracing and even glorifying new technologies that serve its purposes.  This one is pretty open and shut.

  • “The Cult of Action for Action’s Sake” which dictates that action
    is of value in itself, and should be taken without intellectual
    reflection. This, says Eco, is connected with anti-intellectualism and irrationalism, and often manifests in attacks on modern culture and science.
    The same as the previous point. Contemporary trans activism is based in post-modern queer theory, which rejects science and reason as tools of oppression. Contemporary trans activism promotes an ethos of “action for action’s sake,” by celebrating violence, disruptive spectacle, and constant struggle, and by discouraging critical thinking and introspection.

  • “Disagreement Is Treason” Fascism devalues intellectual discourse
    and critical reasoning as barriers to action, as well as out of fear
    that such analysis will expose the contradictions embodied in a
    syncretistic faith.
    Contemporary trans activists circulate “terf” block lists and try to suppress “terf” rhetoric because they know that their ideology is internally contradictory, and they fear that it will collapse under critical scrutiny.
  • “Fear of Difference” which fascism seeks to exploit and exacerbate,
    often in the form of racism or an appeal against foreigners and
    immigrants.
    Despite the racism of some trans activists, contemporary trans activism does not rely on racism or xenophobia, so this point doesn’t really match up.  However, contemporary trans activism absolutely relies on the demonization of marginalized out-groups, especially lesbians.

  • “Appeal to a Frustrated Middle Class” fearing economic pressure from the demands and aspirations of lower social groups. Contemporary trans activism does not rely on an economic appeal.  However, I don’t think it’s a coincidence that alienated, downwardly-mobile, middle class white males are its primary constituents.

  • “Obsession with a Plot” and the hyping-up of an enemy threat. This often combines an appeal to xenophobia
    with a fear of disloyalty and sabotage from marginalized groups living
    within the society.
    This point is pretty obvious.  Contemporary trans activism is obsessed with a non-existent “terf” conspiracy.  The movement also promotes an extremely paranoid worldview, teaching its followers that everyone is out to get them and encouraging an unhealthy hyper-vigilance about trivial things like “misgendering.”

  • Fascist societies rhetorically cast their enemies as “at the same
    time too strong and too weak.” On the one hand, fascists play up the
    power of certain disfavored elites to encourage in their followers a
    sense of grievance and humiliation. On the other hand, fascist leaders
    point to the decadence of those elites as proof of their ultimate
    feebleness in the face of an overwhelming popular will. 
    See the “terf” conspiracy.  Contemporary trans activism promotes the idea that its followers are under constant existential threat from powerful and dangerous “terfs,” while simultaneously crowing about how ugly, uncool, unpopular and politically marginalized “terfs” supposedly are.

  • “Pacifism is Trafficking with the Enemy” because “Life is Permanent Warfare”
    – there must always be an enemy to fight.
    This is evidenced by the fact that contemporary trans activism can never be satisfied and must constantly move the goalposts to maintain a state of permanent struggle.  No matter how much trans activists claim to want to eliminate “terfs,” they need “terfs” to oppose them in order to justify their movement’s existence.  If every single woman on earth acquiesced to all of their demands, they would still never be satisfied.  No level of submission will ever be enough to make peace with them, because they don’t actually want peace.

  • “Contempt for the Weak” which is uncomfortably married to a chauvinistic popular elitism,
    in which every member of society is superior to outsiders by virtue of
    belonging to the in-group. 
    Contemporary trans activism resembles a cult, in this respect.  Followers are encouraged to believe that their edgy haircuts and obscure micro-identities make them morally superior to the unenlightened “cis” masses. 

  • “Everybody is Educated to Become a Hero” which leads to the embrace of a cult of death.
    As Eco observes, “the Ur-Fascist hero is impatient to die. In his
    impatience, he more frequently sends other people to death.”
    The contemporary trans movement aggressively promotes and glamorizes mental illness, self-harm, and suicide as markers of authenticity and righteous victimhood.  In turn, trans activists’ fixation on their own supposed victimhood is used to justify their victimization of others. 

  • “Machismo” which sublimates the difficult work of permanent war and
    heroism into the sexual sphere. Fascists thus hold “both disdain for
    women and intolerance and condemnation of nonstandard sexual habits,
    from chastity to homosexuality." 
    The contemporary trans movement is intensely misogynistic and homophobic.  Among the straight male leaders of the movement, it’s easy to see a kind of machismo in drag.  Despite the superficial trappings of femininity such as makeup and clothing, most male trans activists exhibit stereotypical masculine behaviors, including aggression, sadism, narcissism, sexual entitlement, emotional fragility, and contempt for weakness.

  • "Selective Populism” – The People, conceived monolithically, have a
    Common Will, distinct from and superior to the viewpoint of any
    individual. As no mass of people can ever be truly unanimous, the Leader
    holds himself out as the interpreter of the popular will (though truly
    he dictates it). Fascists use this concept to delegitimize democratic
    institutions they accuse of “no longer represent[ing] the Voice of the
    People.”
    While the contemporary trans movement lacks a single Leader who can speak for everyone in it, it does have a small vanguard that dictates its Common Will.  The contemporary trans movement conceives of its constituents as a monolith who all share the same interests and dogmatic opinions.  Any trans-identified person who rejects this dogma is smeared as an enemy and often said to be “not really trans.”

  • “Newspeak” – Fascism employs and promotes an impoverished vocabulary in order to limit critical reasoning.  This point speaks for itself.  One of the most obvious features of contemporary trans activism is its heavy use of obnoxious jargon and its aggressive sloganeering and cult-like repetition of thought-terminating clichés.

Trans Activism and Ur-Fascism

regina-georg:

So, you know how trans activists are constantly insisting that so-called “terfs” are Nazis or fascists?  Well I’m in a trolling mood, so just for fun, lets compare the contemporary trans movement to Umberto Eco’s fourteen-point definition of fascism.  How many characteristics of fascism does trans activism share?

  • “The Cult of Tradition" characterized by cultural syncretism,
    even at the risk of internal contradiction. When all truth has already
    been revealed by Tradition, no new learning can occur, only further
    interpretation and refinement.
    This point is debatable I guess, depending on your definition of “tradition.” The contemporary trans movement certainly relies on a rigid dogma from which “no new learning can occur,” but it’s not necessarily tied to nostalgia and it’s certainly not a form of nationalism.
  • “The Rejection of Modernism”
    which views the rationalistic development of Western culture since the
    Enlightenment as a descent into depravity. Eco distinguishes this from a
    rejection of superficial technological advancement, as many fascist
    regimes cite their industrial potency as proof of the vitality of their
    system.
    Like other post-modernist movements the contemporary trans movement absolutely rejects modernism and reason while embracing and even glorifying new technologies that serve its purposes.  This one is pretty open and shut.

  • “The Cult of Action for Action’s Sake” which dictates that action
    is of value in itself, and should be taken without intellectual
    reflection. This, says Eco, is connected with anti-intellectualism and irrationalism, and often manifests in attacks on modern culture and science.
    The same as the previous point. Contemporary trans activism is based in post-modern queer theory, which rejects science and reason as tools of oppression. Contemporary trans activism promotes an ethos of “action for action’s sake,” by celebrating violence, disruptive spectacle, and constant struggle, and by discouraging critical thinking and introspection.

  • “Disagreement Is Treason” Fascism devalues intellectual discourse
    and critical reasoning as barriers to action, as well as out of fear
    that such analysis will expose the contradictions embodied in a
    syncretistic faith.
    Contemporary trans activists circulate “terf” block lists and try to suppress “terf” rhetoric because they know that their ideology is internally contradictory, and they fear that it will collapse under critical scrutiny.
  • “Fear of Difference” which fascism seeks to exploit and exacerbate,
    often in the form of racism or an appeal against foreigners and
    immigrants.
    Despite the racism of some trans activists, contemporary trans activism does not rely on racism or xenophobia, so this point doesn’t really match up.  However, contemporary trans activism absolutely relies on the demonization of marginalized out-groups, especially lesbians.

  • “Appeal to a Frustrated Middle Class” fearing economic pressure from the demands and aspirations of lower social groups. Contemporary trans activism does not rely on an economic appeal.  However, I don’t think it’s a coincidence that alienated, downwardly-mobile, middle class white males are its primary constituents.

  • “Obsession with a Plot” and the hyping-up of an enemy threat. This often combines an appeal to xenophobia
    with a fear of disloyalty and sabotage from marginalized groups living
    within the society.
    This point is pretty obvious.  Contemporary trans activism is obsessed with a non-existent “terf” conspiracy.  The movement also promotes an extremely paranoid worldview, teaching its followers that everyone is out to get them and encouraging an unhealthy hyper-vigilance about trivial things like “misgendering.”

  • Fascist societies rhetorically cast their enemies as “at the same
    time too strong and too weak.” On the one hand, fascists play up the
    power of certain disfavored elites to encourage in their followers a
    sense of grievance and humiliation. On the other hand, fascist leaders
    point to the decadence of those elites as proof of their ultimate
    feebleness in the face of an overwhelming popular will. 
    See the “terf” conspiracy.  Contemporary trans activism promotes the idea that its followers are under constant existential threat from powerful and dangerous “terfs,” while simultaneously crowing about how ugly, uncool, unpopular and politically marginalized “terfs” supposedly are.

  • “Pacifism is Trafficking with the Enemy” because “Life is Permanent Warfare”
    – there must always be an enemy to fight.
    This is evidenced by the fact that contemporary trans activism can never be satisfied and must constantly move the goalposts to maintain a state of permanent struggle.  No matter how much trans activists claim to want to eliminate “terfs,” they need “terfs” to oppose them in order to justify their movement’s existence.  If every single woman on earth acquiesced to all of their demands, they would still never be satisfied.  No level of submission will ever be enough to make peace with them, because they don’t actually want peace.

  • “Contempt for the Weak” which is uncomfortably married to a chauvinistic popular elitism,
    in which every member of society is superior to outsiders by virtue of
    belonging to the in-group. 
    Contemporary trans activism resembles a cult, in this respect.  Followers are encouraged to believe that their edgy haircuts and obscure micro-identities make them morally superior to the unenlightened “cis” masses. 

  • “Everybody is Educated to Become a Hero” which leads to the embrace of a cult of death.
    As Eco observes, “the Ur-Fascist hero is impatient to die. In his
    impatience, he more frequently sends other people to death.”
    The contemporary trans movement aggressively promotes and glamorizes mental illness, self-harm, and suicide as markers of authenticity and righteous victimhood.  In turn, trans activists’ fixation on their own supposed victimhood is used to justify their victimization of others. 

  • “Machismo” which sublimates the difficult work of permanent war and
    heroism into the sexual sphere. Fascists thus hold “both disdain for
    women and intolerance and condemnation of nonstandard sexual habits,
    from chastity to homosexuality." 
    The contemporary trans movement is intensely misogynistic and homophobic.  Among the straight male leaders of the movement, it’s easy to see a kind of machismo in drag.  Despite the superficial trappings of femininity such as makeup and clothing, most male trans activists exhibit stereotypical masculine behaviors, including aggression, sadism, narcissism, sexual entitlement, emotional fragility, and contempt for weakness.

  • "Selective Populism” – The People, conceived monolithically, have a
    Common Will, distinct from and superior to the viewpoint of any
    individual. As no mass of people can ever be truly unanimous, the Leader
    holds himself out as the interpreter of the popular will (though truly
    he dictates it). Fascists use this concept to delegitimize democratic
    institutions they accuse of “no longer represent[ing] the Voice of the
    People.”
    While the contemporary trans movement lacks a single Leader who can speak for everyone in it, it does have a small vanguard that dictates its Common Will.  The contemporary trans movement conceives of its constituents as a monolith who all share the same interests and dogmatic opinions.  Any trans-identified person who rejects this dogma is smeared as an enemy and often said to be “not really trans.”

  • “Newspeak” – Fascism employs and promotes an impoverished vocabulary in order to limit critical reasoning.  This point speaks for itself.  One of the most obvious features of contemporary trans activism is its heavy use of obnoxious jargon and its aggressive sloganeering and cult-like repetition of thought-terminating clichés.

appropriately-inappropriate:

thesinisterspinster:

officialweatherwax:

obscuritiesoffbeat:

obscuritiesoffbeat:

I don’t usually soap-box, but I’m going to for a hot sec since this has been on my mind: 

Cults are getting better branding, prettier leaders, hipper-sounding cosmologies, and wider reaches due to social media. They’re not all deity-focused. Thoughtful, intelligent people can get sucked into them. Just…stay safe out there, guys. Do your research, look at all your options, and trust your gut, not your guru.

I’m glad this is resonating with people.

I do want to emphasize, again, that cults (and toxic groups with cult-like attributes, I’m using this term pretty loosely) don’t usually look like what you’d expect. A lot of toxic and dangerous religious movements are tiny and you won’t find much about them via Google. Cultish non-religious movements are the same way.

Start-ups, multi-level marketing companies, activist groups, fan groups, political groups, and internet gurus who run retreats can all be cult-like and dangerous. Tune your BS detector, ask family, friends, and experts for advice.

Here are some warning signs:

Pressure – pressure to make quick decisions, to give (or pledge) considerable amounts of money, to move in with a group, to abandon family or cut off friends.
Elevated Leaders – anyone claiming special insight, special powers, or that they aren’t human. Demanding special treatment (compared to other followers). Misuse of funds or money collecting at the top. physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse. Lack of accountability or oversight.
Isolation – encouraging (or requiring) members to cut off family relationships, friendships with those outside of the group, leaving jobs, moving to isolated areas, taking away communication methods. Strong “us-vs-them” mentality. Vilification of ex-members. Love-bombing.
Altered states of consciousness – long work hours, sleep deprivation, lack of access to adequate food or water. Otherwise unproblematic activities like meditation/prayer/chanting, but done for hours.
Discouraging doubt – discouraging or punishing doubt and critical thinking.

(Source 1, Source 2, Source 3)

If these send up red flags for you or loved ones, here are some collected resources: one, two.

Trust your gut, not your guru

Paganism is especially vulnerable to cults so a couple of decades ago Isaac Bonewits (one of our more prolific authors) devised a quick evaluation tool: the Advanced Bonewits Cult Danger Evaluation Frame. It might be a good starting point if you’re concerned about a group or a guru.

This has become so nessicary for not just pagans but everyone beware of anyone who doesnt want you to think for yourself.

*coffcoff* I’m just going to leave this here. I’m sure you can all figure out why.