harperhug:

captain-pride:

Trauma often messes with one’s ability to say “no”. 

You either consciously or subconsciously think, “I don’t want to hurt this person’s feelings” or “If I say no, then they’ll hurt me” or “It won’t really be that bad” or “I can handle this” or “I need to do this to prove myself” or “I deserve this”, or you forget that “no” is even an option.

It’s still not your fault if you didn’t say “no”, even if you think maybe you could have. It’s still not your fault. You didn’t deserve what happened to you and you didn’t bring it upon yourself. It was never your fault.

I just cried when I read this. Thank you.

thesinisterspinster:

lez0mbie:

“sex work doesn’t equal sex trafficking”

stop trying to separate sex “work” and sex trafficking. without sex trafficking, the sex industry wouldn’t be the multi-billion dollar industry it is today.

And without trafficking there would not be supply. Places with legal prostitution have higher trafficking rates not lower. Stop listening to pimps start listening to women.

thesinisterspinster:

lez0mbie:

“sex work doesn’t equal sex trafficking”

stop trying to separate sex “work” and sex trafficking. without sex trafficking, the sex industry wouldn’t be the multi-billion dollar industry it is today.

And without trafficking there would not be supply. Places with legal prostitution have higher trafficking rates not lower. Stop listening to pimps start listening to women.

trick2tered:

celtyradfem:

trick2tered:

TERFs and Radfems are legally obligated to interact with this post

We’re not the ones threatening and beating women but go off

What do you think of this song?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8hRp5N1lD7k

Honey.

are you actually implying that cis woman dont beat other woman, because I promise you that happens more frequently than trans woman beating up other woman, but go off I guess!

I sincerely doubt that seeing as trans males have the retain the violence rate of other men but

There is no implication. Women are far less violent than men (regardless of how they think of themselves).

BTW: We don’t punch our political opponents either

SIGNAL BOOST – NOT A JOKE, PLEASE READ! IMPORTANT!

jewishmagpie:

There is a – as of this moment – 11k note post by @princessbubblegumandjustice that lists an evil and disgusting community of abusers that are sharing disturbing images concerning children. I have just been privately made aware of it.

(Yes, I am avoiding specific terms that others may have blacklisted so as many people as possible see it. I apologise, but I don’t know what else to do.)

I am not going to link the post, and will now explain why.

Bubblegum, as far as I’m aware, is a good person trying to do a very good thing, and I in no way am hating her in the slightest. I think that she’s a good person, but she has made a terrible, terrible (and totally accidental) mistake.

The list that she has compiled is excellent so that the authorities can investigate.

The list that she shared to Tumblr is dangerous.

I am not kidding.

Any predatory individual that is looking for CP has to do nothing but remember one of those urls, go to a public library, use a free proxy site, and from there, will be able to contact someone to access images.
Without being traced.

It looks like a good idea, but whilst good people are trying to spread what they think is right, predators can use that list to abuse and spread more abuse.

The list needs to be saved in private so that the authorities can investigate and make arrests. The list needs to be eradicated from the public sphere to protect children and to stop predators from using it as a tool to spread and share in more abuse.

Please, please delete any reblogs of that post. Remove that post.

With all respect to Bubblegum, if we report that single post to Tumblr so it can be wiped from the site, that would be a very good thing.

The pastebin list needs to be deleted, too.

I am literally begging all of you. Love me, hate me, wish me dead, I literally do not care whether you’re a far-Right or far-Left or spread hate or literally whatever else, we can surely all agree that we need to do what we can to protect children.

I never, ever tag blogs to try and signal boost anything, but I’m breaking that rule here because it is so, so important.

Please reblog and delete those posts!

And if you literally cannot stand having a post by me on your blog, make your own version! I don’t care! Claim it’s your idea to take it down, my ego is not important and this information is!

@takashi0 @cisnowflake @nunyabizni @fandomsandfeminism @tooiconic @celtyradfem @siryouarebeingmocked @cheshireinthemiddle

Tag whoever that I can’t or can’t remember! I am deadly, deadly serious and desperate to reach out to whoever else has a large number of followers that can see this!

It turns out that pedophiles can use the list to find other pedophiles and child pornography.

Could anyone who reblogged that post please delete it to prevent pedophiles having access to child pornography blogs?

Keep the list of names for reporting but delete the post